Let's start with beauty.
There is no woman on the planet who is probably as beautiful as Jennifer Connelly. Been so for like 20 years.
She is an icon. There are others...you can name yours and they can be male or female (like Adrian Paul, Brad Pitt and Johnny Depp are all too pretty to live...just kidding).
We all have an IDEA of beauty that "sets" in our brains at some early age. It may be malleable, but it is how we get together.
But it is just one the precursors. We might, actually, come to find the love of our life to be someone utterly unexpected. Sometimes this works better.
Beauty desired is born of narcissistic desire. The other person does not yet exist. Sometimes they never do... or maybe later you realize this was the last person for you.
Either way, of the levels of love, lust, sex, desire, friendship, companionship, and loyalty, beauty is the thin film on the top of your layered cake.
First taste and tantalizing.
2 comments:
the more i love my husband and get to know him the more attractive he is . . . even if he ages like bob dylan, he will still be beautiful to me.
i have a hard time telling someone what my "type" is because it is ever evolving. thank God so is my husband. he's not always my "type" but when i find that he's not, i change with him and he becomes my "type" again.
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